Insecurities

Where do insecurities come from? How did you become the person you are?

I remember the exact moment I was looking in the mirror thinking, how did I get here? How is this my life?

Have you ever wanted to be someone else?

I used to dream of living a different life. What I have discovered over my journey is that it is not that I wanted a different life; I wanted my permission to live my own. I cared so much about what other people thought, and I was so scared of not being good enough so I would take myself out of the game before anyone else could. I would tear myself down in my mind, and I believed in every negative comment I ever received.

I felt alone in a room full of people. I felt misunderstood and overlooked. I was quiet and reserved, so no one had a reason to notice me, and those stories in my mind went wild.

I developed insecurities I brought with me to my career, relationships, and every morning to the mirror, and they held me back. I developed codependency, people-pleasing, overthinking, poor eating habits that nearly killed me.

Insecurities are not evil traits that we all possess and have to fight daily. No, they are the brilliant gifts within our human nature. When you know how to leverage your insecurities properly, they will become your greatest asset. They are part of life; learn how to use them to your advantage to speed up your lifeboat rather than sink it.

See you in the SHOVE IT Foundational Course!

Module 1, we dive into how you became the person you are today. Through three fascinating processes, you will uncover where your beliefs came from, and then the rest of the course programs your mind to help you change your core beliefs for the better. If you are only going to invest in yourself once this year, make it to this course.